Yep, still married. No desire not to be. I think people want my H to be shocked into his right mind. I don't think my dating would do that. I think he'd take it as permission to be more obvious about dating himself.

And as I say, dating casually while married isn't who I want to be. I have 2 friends in EA's and it makes me queasy because it's so destructive. My H might not care but I want to be able to hold my head high for my kids, myself, and God.

Last edited by Maybell; 11/02/14 02:05 PM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.