"I don't doubt while I wrote my shortcomings I was in a snarky state of mind as I felt many of her complains were "script" and the same as so many told to other LBS on the board. I have been truly trying to change me and focus on my boys, it's just I haven't seen any effort from her to change the way she's acting towards our M. "
Then you didn't understand what DBing is all about. It's about changing your for you, irregardless of whether or not your spouse responds. It doesn't even seem as if you read the book.
It's why you haven't been successful. You never did believe in the system because you let your pride get in the way. You gave it a half effort.
Good luck to your sons.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
