Hope, I hear you. I have thought about this often. That's why I'm telling you that I should have been a better leader for my family. That's completely on me. You are also correct that I have placed that blame on my W, and it's not helped our R at all. Also, on me.

I plan on discussing your observation(s) more with my pastor next week. I think I really need to dig in here, because this part of me needs to be fixed. Thanks for helping me see it more clearly.

FD

Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)