Thanks seattle! It's great to be able to share with all the wonderful people on the board. I may be guilty of not doing more for myself. Am increasing that with time. There is tons of stuff to do that's fun, that I like. Need to get to the place where it seems like I don't have enough time again since I am occupied w. different things(this was me pre-bomb time) Think I get so involved especially since I'm into psychology and value R's. To me, it's fun to read books like DR and really figure things out.
Know that PMA is main ingredient for this. Question to successful piecers- who built up friendship to the reconciliation point and beyond.....what was the pace that you experienced with the friendship? Slow and steady? Warmer when you got warmer? Just curious. How many increased 'unavailability' and warmed friendship to gain results?
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
