why didn't you two ever marry? Sorry if you explained this already &I missed it, but your comment about a lack of commitment seems a tiny bit ironic, given that you yourself never married.
Did you ever want to? If not, why not? Do you now, someday want to?
He was engaged before to a woman who would never set a date. He asked her to marry him, she said yes, and the years dragged on without a date set and no marriage forth-coming.
After they broke up, he decided marriage wasn't for him and he didn't want to marry ANYONE, ever. He just didn't feel it was necessary to a committed relationship.
I'm a "take it or leave it" kind of a woman. That is, I don't need a marriage to feel content and secure in a relationship. If he had asked me, I would have said yes without hesitation, but it didn't bother me he didn't want to be married. It wasn't something I needed.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
