RJ - Your H is an idiot for leaving someone that is so kind and inspirational as you are. Keep up the good work, you are doing so much. I worry you aren't doing enough for yourself.

You have stated these things you are doing you enjoy and you are growing as a person so that is all anyone can hope to gain from life. So maybe my worries are unfounded. As long as you are happy for yourself, it really doesn't matter what WAS does. Keep up the great solution based attitude and actions. You are so awesome.