The separation was needed-- I am grateful for this time. But the fact that he has chosen to continue to abandon our marriage and not consider reconciliation after all the changes I've shown... says a lot more about him than it does about me.
Claire, one thing that has always struck me in your threads is that you don't seem to engage in R talk with your H, ever. I know that's how DB-ing is supposed to be, but I wonder if maybe you're mind-reading here -- how do you know he isn't considering reconciliation?
I do think that you have shown amazing strength over the past year and you should feel immensely proud of yourself for all the things you've accomplished, whether or not your H is willing to recognize them.
