You get through anger the same way as sadness... GAL, PMA, focus on yourself. Acknowledge it.
WRT anniversary... I told my friends about it so they would understand if I was a bit moody, and made sure I had great plans for that day. Remembered why marrying him was a good choice (I have grown, enormously, thanks to this marriage), and didn't acknowledge it with him (I would have liked him to say something but he didn't. Classic avoider behavior.)
Great job on all the successes!!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
