I'm following your "act out the boundaries" advice with my H and so confused I don't know what to suggest when a WAS/MLCer pokes the LBS.
But I'll tell you that my brother today said that men are stupid and that they have to think they've lost you to realize what bad decisions they've made. You've done a superb job of GAL and maybe your H is getting the memo? Who knows.
Hugs lady!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15