As for your H not caring about you, being distant, etc. He is doing that in order to ease his guilt. It will catch up to him one day, most likely, though he may never admit it to you. You just don't spend that much of your life with a person and never think about them again. He might be focusing on the negatives now and pushing you away and being cold to make himself feel better and justify his actions. That is all. Probably doesn't have much to do with you. It's all about him. Try not to take it personally.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!