Thanks Maybell - and yes I am still running and loving it, I am now up to 8.5K 4 times a week.

And while I'm doing it for my own benefit and not for H to notice...I thought he might have mentioned it to me, asked how it was going or something (my S18 told him I was out running when he came round one night, and he also passed me in the car while I was running) But he just couldn't care less what I'm up to.

You are right - I need to decide when this has to stop bothering me. I just wish this OW would disappear.


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014