I was thinking back to when I was first on here. You were acknowledging your role in the M, acknowledging some truth in your WAH's words, but not letting yourself succumb to the full weight of blame. I couldn't find the exact post to quote it, but you said something like, "I know I wasnt the best W but I wasnt a lunatic like he's making me out to be." Those days were the healthiest I've seen you in here. Just reminding you of that because you can and will get back to it!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23