We also cannot plan our vacation during the main holidays - xmas, thanksgiving, easter and birthdays.
Are you trying to take them during xmas? if you are not be infringing on her holiday, I don't understand what her specific complains / concerns are.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D