Bug - so sorry to hear about the struggles with your son.

It's good that you recognize how you and your H approach and react differently to challenging situations - awareness is the first step, right?

It also doesn't help that your H has his plate full right now. C together sounds like a great option.

You are amazing, Bug. I know you will find a smoother way to navigate these choppy waters (and learn some for the next round of waves).

xoxo

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D