vertex - I agree with Ahoy, sandi2, but let me tell you how impressed I am that you're on this board and willing to look at yourself, see how you can improve and perhaps save your marriage. This puts you several steps ahead of others. Kudos.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.