Am I on the right track? (2)

[wmwb123]

I still cannot wrap my head around this LRT strategy in my situation. There has been no contact between my wife and I for three months now. I see all these other threads with wives who are cake-eating. Mine never tried any of that. She just up and left one day out of the blue. Until I discovered the affair she was telling me she loved me but was not in love with me. She said she still felt like I was family and that she could talk to me about almost anything. After I discovered the affair, she quickly became very distant. 99.99999% she's done, right? She left, never waffled and then filed for divorce. There was never any indication that she was having second thoughts except for the fact that until I spilled the beans she was telling her parents (in another country) and friends that everything was fine. She's already checked out, and she's moving full steam ahead towards divorce. How can LRT be the right strategy? Don't get me wrong. Every expert I have talked to says that I shouldn't pursue, but I just can't understand how that can possibly work.