BD and 6 months later PA confirmed (2)

[Bunches]

Thanks Ggrass, its good to know that I'm not just making knee jerk stupid reactions again. I'm not ready to date and I didn't think the D was necessary but W has just been lying to me way before she left and getting away with everything. Right now everything is so open ended and none of my rights are solidified with my S because I've never filed. I need the secure that future with S and as for W things are worth being together now and its just obvious she has done none of the work.

Besides that it sounds like I'm going to need to relocate for work soon and if I don't get custody settled, I could be in a bad spot. Filing at this point is about S and I and what we need...not about punishing W. It is what she wants but that doesn't matter now. I'm ready to move on...even if I do look back from time to time.