fair enough. I saw a very insightful video on TED Talks, by a guy titled something like "Why I Gave Up Porn", which you may find helpful.
Among other things, he mentions how there is no seduction or romance in Porn, mostly just the act of penetration. When he said that, I immediately realized why its such a turn off for me & my girlfriends.
There's more to it & I hope you'll watch it, as food for thought.
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