And, now that I've been S an entire year, I guess I'm not technically a newcomer anymore? (though I didn't start posting until last March--4 months into this).
I wonder if this is a MLC, or that he was having an EA, or was just depressed (he was, I think)... and if so, does that change ANYTHING about my approach, or how I handle/feel about this?
How common is it for someone to up and walk out on the marriage like my H did, if he's NOT in a MLC or having an A?
Does the reason matter AT ALL?
Still searching for understanding, which will probably never ever come. That is the hardest part. Because I feel like if it WAS a MLC, then I could imagine a point when that would END, and maybe that would give me hope to wait it out. But I don't see it that way. I see that he just sort of gave up and left and... it all ended with such a whimper.
Need to decide what, if anything, to say to him on Monday-- our anniversary.
