Dave, how much longer before you don't pass it up next time?
I totally understand those change in attitudes. I went from dedicated, to looking and wishing, to over the past 2 years or so giving myself permission to have an A if the situation arose. Not sure what i would have done if it had, but i had passed the point where i would not consider it an option.
Well now i pretty much have permission, given that i've stated that i'm done with trying to keep the marriage together. Wife has even started giving me safe sex tips because i have a trip to LV scheduled with some friends.
I'm not actively seeking anything yet, still wearing the wedding ring, but in some ways i do hope some situation arises for me sometime soon.
