Good luck with the job, Maybell! I hear you about feeling like your H is a stranger you share kids with. It's so weird to see this person you once knew so well and feel like you have no idea who they are anymore. By not speaking for so long, does it make it easier or harder, emotionally? I'm asking because I plan to go dark with my H except for necessary child-related communication. I spent last month being chummy with him, and that did not get results, except to reveal his OW relationship. Keep us posted on your job prospects!
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!