From a Woman's point of view, I totally understand. Unfortunately, we women get called nasty names such as "bar slut" when we flirt for that kind of attention. It does make your ego go up alot and when you have low self-esteem as it is, it feels darn good. Even if you have no intensions of sleeping with the guy, it's just nice to hear someone say you're good looking and would like to see me if I wasn't married. Usually when this happens I just end up buying him a few beers and talking the night away. Sometimes, believe it or not, that is all a guy wants is to have someone to talk to. Yah...I watch Temptation Island and I understand completely what they are going though at times. Sometimes life plays some unfair games and really tests your faithfulness. Are we bad if we are weak? Trust me, my marriage is deffinately on the point of breaking because of this same situation. I feel for you completely and I don't think you are a bad guy at all for doing what you did. It's probably a memory that you will have forever and die with a smile on your face. So, what does your conscience say to you?