WOW! You went there didn't you? I totaly understand where you are coming from. Are you sure this should be the affair'o meter, sounds more like you sound like you have found the far limits of your patience. I am feeling that I am there too, in a shorter timespan than yours. A friend of mine keeps asking me a similar question, not as eloquent as yours, that I did not quite fully understand until I read your post. It was something along the lines of "Would you feel guilty tommorow if you sated yourself today?" I love my H and I am still attracted to him, but I am getting tired of forcing the issue with him when others seem to be more than willing. So what do you do now?
