Tar, I think you're right to let her drive. If she wants it, she will make it happen. If she's conflicted, she will waffle. Step back and see what happens.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!