Your situation is very similar to mine. W also states that she needs time to clear her head...I have told her that I do not want anyone to move out as I think the best way to work through it is to stay and sleep in the same bed. She talks about a appartment to figure things out but, unlike your W, she does not want the kids to think that she is leaving. Matter of fact she is becoming very possesive of her time vs my time with them...??? I guess that it is just me that she needs to figure things out about I continue to state that I do not understand to myself but am working on all that I can to get her to relize not to throw it all away following all this forum and DB has to offer. More counceling in 2 weeks for both of us...then two more sessions after that.
It appears darker and darker...loosing hope that she will turn around. Very sad, I mimmic your feelings of tears most of the time.
Happy to see kids dress up tonight and spend time with friends. Talk to you on Monday.
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on
I continue to state that I do not understand to myself but am working on all that I can to get her to relize not to throw it all away following all this forum and DB has to offer. More counceling in 2 weeks for both of us...then two more sessions after that. 