Thanks Ahoy. No strength of character at all. I am close to tears most of the time and just have to keep together for kids. W called me this morning to see how I was and to ask if she could stay tonight as she normally takes girls to hers but D13 wanted to stay home. I said that was fine , she then told me she was very down and was having a bad day. Both Ds dressed up now in scary customers and W just text to say she was not com go as she had a bad headache Both Ds very disappointed and feel W is letting them down again. Very frustrating Thanks for posting