Was. Does she want to come home ?

[Ahoy]

rd500, I'm sorry it's so hard on the kids. Your WAW is hurting them, and it's hard to stand by and watch that happen without trying to jump in and help. But you are wise to stay out of it. Your kids will have to sort out their relationship with her on their own in time. You are doing everything you can for them in the meantime. I admire your strength of character.