Hi Hrdtims She decided if I wouldn't move she would. It's a long story but basically she wants to be away from me and kids. Saturday before she left she told me problem was not me but in her head. She also told me she did not feel like playing with the kids anymore and she hope moving out would make her miss them. We told them together that she needed space to think and I just validated her. The way I look at it is the kids come first and I would tell them the truth but just enough. No real advice but I hope it doesn't come to this for your sake
