I said I was having a problem because people are telling me I'm stupid for still being in love with BF, missing him, and admitting I still consider him my soul mate. They tell me to bag the idiot and move on because he doesn't deserve me and I don't deserve the crap he dished out.
Someone responded and told me that's why you don't talk about it to non-DB peeps.
I don't talk negative about BF in any capacity.
Understood. But a lot of posters on this thread seem to be repeating behaviors I persisted in and since I did not see anything about actual DBing a lot, I thought I'd pipe in some of my experiences.
Your bf made claims about the R that you do not agree with. I get that.
But are there any things you DO think had validity and would like to change about yourself?
I ask this b/c No WAS (or boyfriend) will return to a relationship they left,
unless they believe the relationship can be better/different than before.
And it's pretty much our job to show them that it can be.
So how are you doing that, or do you not want to ?
I would think you do want to b/c you say he's your soul mate.
So what's your "action" plan? That's what I'm missing here.
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 10/31/1405:51 PM.
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