I think some people missed posts, here.

I said I was having a problem because people are telling me I'm stupid for still being in love with BF, missing him, and admitting I still consider him my soul mate. They tell me to bag the idiot and move on because he doesn't deserve me and I don't deserve the crap he dished out.

Someone responded and told me that's why you don't talk about it to non-DB peeps.


I don't talk negative about BF in any capacity to non-DB peeps, really.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies