In regard to telling people, I'm emotional and I'm insanely self-revelatory. I don't hold privacy sacred. I don't care who knows, especially not my close friends. I can't hide my pain and I don't like to try.
The problem with that^^ is that you are behaving in alignment with how you FEEL and NOT in alignment with your goal.
Showing your pain will not get your bf back.
You may need to change the way you behave, IF that is really your goal. But, IS it?
Anyway:
BF texted me to tell me he had a box of things for me. He asked if I wanted to pick them up or wanted him to drop them off. I told him I had a full weekend planned, but if he could give me a time when no one was home, he could leave it on the porch and I'd pick it up.
He must have felt this was pushing his buttons because he snipped at me and told me he'd drop it off. Then he added he had no idea what my problem was.
I took a deep breath before I replied and thought out my answer, which was that I wanted to avoid the emotional mess that would result if he had his girlfriend visiting. Nothing personal, but I'm trying to limit the number of times the scab gets ripped off.
He angrily asked me if I thought he was "that mean" that he'd parade in front of me like that.
Well, dude, you did cheat on me; never thought you'd be that mean. You also broke up with me when I was lead to believe we were in it for better or for worse, even without a piece of paper and a formal marriage.
Soooo....I don't know, are your actions trustworthy enough to make me think you "wouldn't be that mean" as to parade your new girlfriend in front of me?
CLUE BY FOUR. He stopped responding. :P
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 10/31/1405:23 PM.
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