My husband has given me about every excuse in the book as to why we shouldn't or cannot make love. I have tried changing so many different aspects of our relationship to try to remedy the situation. We ruled out all physical problems and we have touched on several different emotional problems with out any remedies. I am at my wits end, I know that he loves me and I love and desire him very much but I am starting to lose it I cannot live this way any longer. I am a healthy 35 year old women, I would love to converse with someone having similar problems.