One other thing, really think about how much power you give him over how you see you.

Be the person you want to be, work on your stuff, walk your path. He's either decide he's like to walk beside you or not.

If he's not a man who can walk beside you have your answer.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss