Another reason I'm hesitant to "tell" everyone about the situation is because, understandably, they will take my side. I don't need people taking my side or her side. I need people calling me on my BS and so I can save my marriage. Easier done when I keep my big trap shut.

Just my 2�

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3