So so it seems the trend of the talking teen bucking the trend of the moody teenager who locks them self away is still happening.

Last night I hardly got any sleep, but I'm going to have work on that one in the future, as s16 wanted to talk. Strange thing is it was after I sat him down and read him the riot act ( well my version) of what I expect around here. Some boundaries in a nice way, calm and with all of things I've been working on. He was told no and a temper tantie ensued. Then after a while he got control and we sat down and really talked thus the boundaries.

Later he then came out with major pester power to make me change my mind, which didn't happen, but he wanted to connect and talk just in general later which is a 180 for him.

Today he got his food, for camping trip with his mates, but no mention of the alcohol he was pestering for. Which I said no to. Things I noticed was he pestered less, and when the issue was finished yesterday he didn't try to re open it. Also something he would have continued on.

Both things are a change, guessing I'm finally doing something right. I'm finding it easier and he's responding better.

Oh and the big spotted dog stole the egg plant I bought to put on my pizza. Guess his love handles were hungry. grin yes he ate the lot!

Got to focus this weekend, need to really get on horsey chores, need to continue the de clutter, do some bills, continue the yard clean up, get studying for truck licence and building my yards.

The sawn off ponies (aka as minis) need the starvation yard again, they have not been on the divorce diet and are fatter than ever so they need to be cornered as well. They do know however when they might be going on a diet and so run as soon as they see me of late. wink

What do you get when you cross a donkey with an onion?




A piece of a$$ that brings a tear to your eye!


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26