Thanks 25! I've missed your advice!!! I went back and read a lot of your posts on other threads because I really value your input. H texted me"Have a good day" this morning and then sent me an email containing information sent from D's school. At end of email he put "Anything going on this weekend?" I get the feeling that he is asking about the weekend so he can plan for time with OW. I know this is mind reading but my D's 18th bday is on Monday so I think he is seeing if we are celebrating this weekend or waiting until Monday. No celebration this weekend = time available for him to spend with OW. I haven't responded yet because I'm irritated.
I am ready to re-discover my sexuality. Hopefully, I'm not too late.
I don't believe it's too late for him to rediscover you IF YOU rediscover that side of you.
Let's not turn a potential positive into a negative. HE initiated contact (make sure it's welcomed!) and he asked a caring question about your d's birthday.
I'd think about having something this weekend (unless it would be contrived) that is meaningful and fun and warm and "family-ish". Or have it on Monday. Give him a GOOD MEMORY (& give that to your d as well).= something to miss.
Not a set up for blame or rancor. Just a good time with "loved ones". And when he sees the woman he once harbored deep sexual feelings for and who bore his chldren, when he sees you GAL and looking good and behaving warmly and affectionately (you can show your kids a lot more affection and hug warmly when you can, it's NOT pursuit if it's not prolonged and "clingy" feeling) but cultivate your sensual sides and let them show more.
Thoughts/ideas?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
