Thanks 25! I've missed your advice!!! I went back and read a lot of your posts on other threads because I really value your input. H texted me"Have a good day" this morning and then sent me an email containing information sent from D's school. At end of email he put "Anything going on this weekend?" I get the feeling that he is asking about the weekend so he can plan for time with OW. I know this is mind reading but my D's 18th bday is on Monday so I think he is seeing if we are celebrating this weekend or waiting until Monday. No celebration this weekend = time available for him to spend with OW. I haven't responded yet because I'm irritated.

I am ready to re-discover my sexuality. Hopefully, I'm not too late.

Me: 54
H: 58
Married: 29 years
Together 33 years
H admitted to A: 5/29/14
H moved out :6/15/14
OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H
D23
D18