I'm kind of in that place Claire & 25 described, where if he wants back he knows where to find me, I'm fine either way. That's a little scary. I don't trust that he has enough strength of will to come back. And I don't know how smooth the road home is. (Although I can see him assuming that I'm pining for him indefinitely, since I did give that impression for a long time.)
If nothing is really going wrong for them, then perhaps they feel like it must be going right. So they stay in that fog, they don't lift themselves out of it. And for me, I'm positive my ex thinks that he could come back 3 years from now and I'd still be willing to give it another go. And as long as he thinks that, why make a move? Why would he shake up his currently comfortable life? So frustrating.. I feel you!
