The WAS usually has to experience some type of "loss" that shakes them to their very core before they reverse their direction and start coming out of the fog or their waywardness.
I'm not yet wise enough to offer you advice on your thoughts tonight. But this comment came to mind. Do you think you're dangling simply because he knows you want him, he's not worried about losing the possibility of you, he knows you don't want to find someone else....any combination of the above or other "comfortable" thoughts for him?
Sounds like sandi's above quote fits your WAH perfectly, at this point.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
