I hear you Maybell. But you probably already guessed this would resonate with me.
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I don't trust that he has enough strength of will to come back.
I think of this a lot, too. Like, maybe he needs a little nudge to get him moving.
And, then, I also think... is that the kind of man I want to spend my life with? Someone I had to 'nudge' to come back to me? Maybe your H is retreating-- for now-- to give him the space and clarity to work on what he needs to. Or maybe he's not. There's no way to know, and nothing to do about it.
I think my tactic now is to continue to be the dignified, strong, mature woman I've promised myself I would be. If your H reaches out, can you be friendly while still maintaining the boundary you need right now?
