"Well simply we are both young attractive people with no kids. Once the D is done it's actually harder for us to get back together then to just meet someone new."
Not true. I've known plenty of couples with no children who have gotten back together. The bottom line is that you're her H. No matter how many years down the line you are apart, you will always be her FIRST H. People don't forget that.
Everyone feels helpless. It's not just because they don't have kids together or whatever. Ask the person whose spouse runs off with an OM or OW who's rich or any other circumstance. They've all felt helpless.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
