Yeah, you're standing for the principle. Like I've been telling myself. If we expected our WAS's to remain committed when they didn't feel love under the premise that feelings could change and follow with loving behavior, we the. Have to do the same thing. We can't expect them to have character if we don't. Only difference is we have no guarantees it will reward us in the way we had hoped originally. But I think looking back its better to err on the side of DBing too long, even if you have serious doubts. My plan is not to DB until I'm done grieving, but until the bridges are ALL burned.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
