Thanks Sandi2. I like the idea of saying "What can I do to help?" to put the ball in her court, rather than suggest a course of action. I'll try to remember that (forever!).
English is not our native language. We speak our native tongue together and some of our emails are in English.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.