sorry to hear things are rough for you at the moment, the one and only things I console myself with regarding my S is how resilient I know he is. It kills me that he has to be and why my W cant see the damage and stress she's causing to us, to him but I can only hope she does realise and wants to try again.
My thread got locked but theres a new one if you want to pop by.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015