Thanks Livenow. Very interesting. I would imagine he has been spending $ since before our separation on OW, the question becomes how much and how much would it cost me to go down that road with the lawyer and how would affect his offer on the table currently. I will have to weigh all that out with the rest of this so I can come to a decision.


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together