Son went to IC today and when talking to him afterwards he mentioned that when he told counseller that he had not had much contact with his mum that the counsellor mentioned that it could be because she is spending a lot of time with OM and that she feels bad and having no contact is her way of dealing with her new relationship . So I'm wondering if she will eventually cut contact altogether with the kids .
My son seems a bit happier since seeing the counsellor which is good .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .