You're absolutely right about the scorecard. We both have ours, and it matters not who's "winning", because she'll never think I am.
Where I get tripped up is when I start doing comparisons which then leads to thoughts of "Well I never did that (when out with escorts)". I remember doing a lot of that in the beginning (I even posted it in my very 1st thread back in June).
That ^ helps no one, certainly not me.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!