Really bad idea for you to do that. Do they know all about YOUR past infidelities and the money issues?
They absolutely know. My W revealed it to them early on (before BD). A few days later, I visited them and apologized to them for the pain I caused their daughter and my failure as a husband.
Now (months later), they've been supporting me emotionally and helping me through this difficult time, and have made it clear that they want to help in whatever way they can to keep us intact. Sometimes they say or do things that they think are helping (like suggesting I threaten the OM, and nearly convincing me that it's a good move).
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
It's a desperate act and its' stupid in my opinion. You are slowly building your wife's confidence in the new calm confident kind YOU, but now your ego wants to have a temper tantrum and do some weird "anger filled" self righteous garbage and that's tempting to you?
If it breaks the A, then absolutely, it's tempting. The arguments were very convincing, but in the end I tend to agree with you.
It sounded like a good idea at the time.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
