If you don't care about it, then stop talking about it and stop thinking about it.
I'd be a lot more convinced of your honesty about it, if you stopped focusing on it.
Maybe that's my next step. Let me make it clear -- I still care about the fact that she's spending time with the OM (and particularly if it's in lieu of spending time with the kids).
I just don't care about where she's going and what she's doing.
Good to see you back in my thread.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!