She is still there, you said "she does'nt know" .... but if you smother her .. she will run. 180 this .. .no pursuing .. read and live those 37 rules, they are there for a reason as hard as it is to comprehend ... I have been here long enough and have yet to see 1 solid argument that attacks any of the 37 when we start out.
Detach, pull back, GAL ... start there ... you have a chance to really flip this around ... work on you. Being a Needy dude is not attractive ... I know .. I was that guy .. for YEARS
more reading .. No More Mr Nice Guy .. I have a feeling you could find some useful tips there
Pair that with 5 Love Languages, your LL may be physical touch .. but I am not picking up hers is ... hence why it feels one sided with you.
